Month: April 2019

Love is such a wonderful feeling.Every one goes with this feeling in their lives.It is not a feeling for our partner but it can be the feeling for close ones like mother,father,sister,brother,..

A very big thanks to Jay sir and Nikita ma’am. It is a great journey with all the members. In Love class i have learnt so much things, experienced many things.I think i am getting more mature than earlier. I enjoyed a lot. I speaks very less but now i am more expressive. I am sharing my thought to my love ones and relatives. All sessions of love class were very interesting and joyful for me. I enjoyed it. My best trying is to continue living my further life with this understanding and knowledge of love. And i definitely share my love class knowledge to my close ones outside the FS too.

Before I write down my thoughts about what I learnt about Love, I would like to thank my facilitator Jay sir and Nikita ma’am for blending all the topics and putting forward in such a nice manner where we learnt so much by listening to their thought and examples and also of our batch mates. And understood each other’s perspective about Love.

So what is LOVE ? when we think about this we come up with many different words like Understanding, care, forever vala pyar, intimacy and what not. But the real love is not just to feel its about action , its about expression. Just by being with someone we cannot expect the other person to know that we love them the important thing to do is to express. That will help to enhance and grow the relationship.

The other life changing topic which we covered is forgiveness. Why it is important to forgive someone or our own self is for our mental peace and it is never to wrong to forgive or apologize someone.

Talking about marriage, as I’m newly married , I could take so much from these classes and apply in my personal life which has actually helped me to make my new life work on a smooth pace.

Lastly comes parenting. Parenting is a fun but not so easy task. Its not an easy task to raise a Child its take a lot of time to inculcate the good habits and ethics in them and there is no surety if the child will actually learn and apply it but still the parents keep on trying and so its a Life Long Process. I also realized that parenting is the most important part of life. And for the success of it “ROLE MODELING” is something which is very Important and every parent should role model about anything and everything which they expect their child to do.

Thank you for this wonderful journey which taught us:

HOW LOVE IS LIFE AND LIFE IS LOVE.

It was a wonderful experience to be a part of Love classes. What I have learned is love is everything but “fictional” things shown in movies and series. Love is not only about your significant ones, but it is also about yourself as well.

As rightly said by Scott Peck, “Love is the free exercise of choice. Two people love each other only when they are quite capable of living without each other but choose to live with each other.” Until you love yourself first and make yourself independent emotionally, spiritually and financially, you cannot give love to someone else. Love is when you grow spiritually with each other. When you uplift each other to make a better person. Love is all about forgiveness. Forgiving people for their mistakes and satiating yourself is the self love.

It is said that marriages are made in heaven. However, it’s untrue as you have to go through hell and come back to make a successful marriage. Marriage is not only about loving each other, but it is also about knowing the flaws of your partner and still choosing not to give up on them. Marriage will have different phases where you will fall in love with your partner and feel all gooey, but it will also have phases when you will come across the annoying and clingy things of your partner. It is going to be one hell of a ride, but yes if you stand beside your partner always, you will enjoy the ride.

Parenting was also one of the aspects we focused on. Parenting is not about teaching your child to do what you feel but making them understand to do the right things. Parenting is a life long process and you’re a life long learner. Parenting comes from within the moment you hold your newborn in hands and it keeps on going on till the time when your child learns to hold your hand when he comes of age.

Overall, love classes was a serene experience and thanks a ton to Jay Sir and Nikita ma’am for facilitating us so well and made us understand what is love!

Keep loving! Keep growing! 🙂

Before the reflection of Love classes, I would like to give big token of love and gratitude to my faculties, Jay sir ad Nikita ma’am. We would be bored if you both were not facilitating the same.

After attending life classes, I was excited and awaiting the next step towards Love classes. Though the idea of learning about the love was a bit different than what we attended because Love class was not limited to love rather an overall impression and growth about people, thoughts, feelings connected to Love. I was really impressed about few learning outcomes which unconsciously and consciously applied in my daily routine. One of them is the stages of falling in love where whenever I am in a situation in my routines I get a click about the stage I am in and I immediately remind myself to attend other important stages too like Honeymoon stage 😛  Because somewhere balance of all is required as None of the stage can be omitted from daily routine. Another major part of learning was listening and understanding the perspective. Though have gone through in life class but when discussed in groups explicitly in groups in love class and that too when we apply it with loved ones, God it does helps us out. It saves us from miscommunication to sustaining relationship.

Another most amazing part was forgiveness which is very hard but at the same time outcome gives you peace of mind. The way it was conducted in love class was amazing and very useful as these days(while practicing in routine for small things) forgiving is very easier, quicker, and very effective. Especially in my case, I was not able to forgive myself only,otherwise I never had issues with others which may lead to forgiving stage, but for me, I was not forgiving, Rather I realized I was fool who was in guilt and regret unnecessarily once I started forgiving my own self.

Overall, love class taught me great lessons for life, very knowledgeable and logical things to deal with, to maintain the love respect and feelings for the loved once.