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As a new joinee, I continued with Days 3 and 4, delving into the art of listening and the practice of prioritization. Through interactive activities and reflective exercises, we examined different types of listening and recognized how often we engage in selective listening. This experience deepened my understanding of the importance of active listening in building meaningful and authentic connections.

Habit 3, Put First Things First, came alive through a simple yet powerful activity—a video demonstration using stones in a bottle. This vivid illustration emphasized that when we focus on what truly matters, everything else naturally falls into place.

On Day 4, Habit 6, Synergize, was brought to life through a collaborative team planning game. The exercise underscored the value of teamwork, Win-Win thinking, and collective effort. By setting aside individual egos, we worked together toward a shared goal, and the satisfaction of achieving success as a team was immensely rewarding. The session also offered a great opportunity to connect with fellow teachers and learn from their experiences and perspectives.

From Reflection to Celebration: Our 4-Day Journey Through the 7 Habits

The past four days has been a rollercoaster of learning, laughter, and growth. What started as a structured deep-dive into powerful life lessons soon turned into a celebration of teamwork, joy, and connection. Here’s a glimpse into our unforgettable experience:

Day 1 & 2 – Lessons That Touched the Heart

We began our journey with Utsav Sir and Wilmot Sir, who introduced us to the first three habits:

  • Be Proactive
  • Begin With the End in Mind
  • Put First Things First

Through engaging stories, thoughtful plays, and powerful examples, they didn’t just teach, they helped us feel. There were moments that left us emotional, reminding us of our values and choices. These sessions went beyond learning; they created a sense of closeness among us, bringing everyone together on a deeper, more personal level.

Day 3 & 4 – Energy, Laughter, and Team Spirit

If the first two days were about introspection, the next two were about action and connection. We explored the remaining habits:

  • Think Win-Win
  • Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood
  • Synergize
  • Sharpen the Saw

This time, the learning came alive through play. We laughed until our stomachs hurt, played sports as a team, and discovered each other’s strengths and weaknesses in the process.

One highlight was an activity where we were split into two teams with the task of “scaring” each other. What stood out was how naturally everyone picked roles without needing instructions, each person stepped into what suited them best, and the teamwork flowed effortlessly. That organic collaboration led our team to victory, but more importantly, it showed us the power of trust and synergy.

Life Class ended with the screening of Chak De India, a movie that tied everything together. Its message of unity and resilience resonated with us, reinforcing the importance of togetherness not just in professional spaces, but in life itself.

The Takeaway

These four days reminded us that growth isn’t just about learning theories it’s about experiencing them. From emotional reflections to joyful play, we lived the 7 Habits in ways that will stay with us. The lessons we shared will shape not only our professional journeys but also how we live, connect, and thrive as individuals.

Learning Life Lessons: Reflection on Day 3 & 4 of Life Class

The Life Class sessions on 26th and 27th September were enriching and memorable experiences. I had the opportunity to be a part of the 7 Habits and Love-Beta workshops, thoughtfully guided by Aman Sir and Arshi Ma’am. Their engaging style and practical insights helped us explore key habits such as Put First Things First, Think Win-Win, Seek First to Understand Then to Be Understood, and Synergize. Each habit carried meaningful lessons on communicating effectively, building stronger relationships, and developing the ability to think and act collaboratively.

The sessions were not only interactive but also reflective, encouraging us to apply these habits to our personal and academic lives. They highlighted the importance of maintaining balance, investing in meaningful connections, and approaching situations with positivity and openness.

On Day 2 , the second half of the day was dedicated to watching the inspiring movie Chak De! India. This was a joyful and energizing experience, filled with moments of learning about teamwork, perseverance, and the spirit of unity. Overall, these two days were filled with learning, inspiration, and joy, leaving us with valuable lessons that extend beyond the classroom.

My Journey with the 7 Habits – Day 1 to 4

I recently had a fantastic professional development experience covering The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. The sessions were taken by Aman and Arshi, who started us off with great ice-breaking activities, helping all of us teachers connect and get to know each other.

On the first two days, we tackled the foundational habits. For Habit 1: Be Proactive, I remember being divided into groups to perform a nukkad natak. We were so happy to share what we understood from the prompt, and I really did experience how being proactive is helpful in life. Day two dealt with Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind, and we faced the truth about death. Our facilitators handled this concerning topic with ease, making us realize that because we don’t think about it every day, our time here should be used for the right cause.

A few weeks later, we came back for Day 3 and 4. We learned about the art of listening and its different types. Through sharing and playing activities, we saw how selective listening happens every day and how we can learn to actively listen instead.

Then came Habit 3: Put First Things First. This was demonstrated perfectly with a video of stones in a bottle, showing that if you put your most important life goals in first, the other things will fall into place around them.

Habit 6: Synergize on Day 4 was introduced with a planning game. This game helped us learn how to strategize as a team, think in terms of Win-Win and listening to others during strategising. We became one, kept our egos aside, and worked for a greater cause, which helped us actually win the finals! It was a great activity and I enjoyed it a lot. This was followed by making new connections with other teachers so we can all share and learn from each other.

The last habit, Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw, was about taking time to renew yourself to avoid burnout. It felt like a symbol for the two days we spent together, not just working, but playing and understanding. It all made so much more sense after we ended the session by watching Chak De! India. Reflecting on the movie after learning the habits was the perfect way to end our 4-day journey.

Life Classes(Love class) – Day 7 & 8

The Life Classes on respect, love, and communication have provided us with invaluable insights into the core principles that sustain healthy and fulfilling relationships. We have learned that respect is the foundation upon which trust and mutual understanding are built, while love is a continuous action that nurtures and strengthens the bond between individuals. Moreover, communication stands as the bridge that connects hearts and minds, ensuring that both partners feel heard, valued, and supported.

These lessons have not only deepened our understanding of relationships but also empowered us to apply these principles in our own lives. By fostering respect, nurturing love, and practicing effective communication, we can create lasting and meaningful connections that thrive on mutual care and understanding.

Memorable Life Class Experience- Day 7 & 8

The last two days of our life class have been an incredible journey of learning and self-reflection. We explored the topic of marriage, its different stages, and the key elements that make a relationship healthy and strong. Understanding these aspects gave us a fresh perspective on the importance of relationships in our lives. We also delved into parenting, comparing old and new approaches, and realizing how they shape a child’s growth. A thought-provoking movie helped us relate the stages of marriage to real-life scenarios, making the concepts even more meaningful.

A heartfelt thank you to our wonderful facilitators, Pooja Ma’am and Muskan Ma’am, who made these sessions engaging, insightful, and relatable. Their approach created a comfortable space where we could learn and share openly.

Overall, these eight days have been truly transformative, leaving us with wisdom that will guide us in many aspects of life.

Life Classes(Love class) – Day 5 & 6

The Love class has been a deeply emotional experience for me, especially when we explored the connection between love and pain. We often think of love as a beautiful, uplifting feeling, but there’s another side to it—one that involves vulnerability, sacrifice, and sometimes, emotional pain.

During the class, it became clear that love isn’t just about joy and affection.The hurt that comes when we care deeply for others, the heartache we sometimes endure, and the vulnerability that makes us truly connect. Understanding this aspect of love has helped me realize that pain isn’t something to avoid or fear. Instead, it is part of the process of growing deeper in love, both with ourselves and with others. The second day of the Love class stands out as one of the most heartwarming experiences I’ve had. Listening to everyone’s stories about their definitions of love was deeply moving. It was enlightening to hear how each person’s view of love was shaped by their own experiences, and these reflections expanded my understanding of the topic in unexpected ways. The openness and honesty with which everyone shared created a truly special, safe space for reflection and connection.

A heartfelt thank you to our facilitators for guiding us through these powerful realizations. Their openness and ability to create a space where we could explore both the beauty and the complexities of love was invaluable. Their passion made this journey through love and pain a truly enriching and eye-opening experience.

Emotions: An inevitable part of living

“I don’t ever want to feel sad…”

What a wishful thinking, I reckon.

It wasn’t too long ago that I realised not wanting to feel an emotion is never a ‘good’ option. As a bandaid option, yes, sounds great. However, will that feeling come back to haunt you sometime later in life, in a different setting, in a different way?
Probably yes.

How do you deal with a wind-whirl of feelings and emotions that come hitting you across your face, with an increasing pain in your stomach that doesn’t resemble butterflies anymore, and an aching, sharp, deafening sound that leaves you hearing your own heartbeat?
It sounds scary and overwhelming.

From these life classes, I take back one thing – ways to manage my emotions: Acceptance.

Acceptance comes in various forms – maybe in search of truth, maybe through the learnings of Buddha, or maybe through therapy.

My form is acceptance?
Therapy!

When discussing these unsettling emotions, I have a nerve to discuss something pleasant (my way to deal with discomfort, I guess?). Love, no? I mean, the two days of life classes were dedicated to this very emotion. Love in every form – be it familial, platonic or romantic. However, something I really enjoyed was knowing what this particular class has done crazy in love. There’s something mischievous, flirty and innocent in sharing what each of us has done to express the extent of love we feel.

Abrupt ending – thanks.

LIfe Classes – Day 5 & 6

A Question I Am Left With After This Life Class:

Many of us are familiar with the age-old phrase, “Ignorance is bliss,” but is ignorance really bliss? I found this excerpt from the book particularly thought-provoking: “What makes life difficult is that the process of confronting and solving problems is a painful one.” The key, I think, is becoming aware of that pain—acknowledging it, making space for it in our lives, and spending time getting to know it. This is what makes the difference. Once we become familiar with that pain in a way that allows us not to hold on to it, we set ourselves free and transcend it.

Another moment that stood out to me was the activity we did on the second day of the Love class. It was incredibly wholesome to hear everyone’s stories about what love means to them. It was truly enjoyable. A big thank you to our facilitators for their time, energy, and infectious enthusiasm.

7 Habits Life and Love – Alpha

Day-3 and 4 of the life class were truly intriguing and insightful.Reflecting on Covey’s seven habits has reinforced my commitment to personal growth and effectiveness. Each habit builds on the others, creating a comprehensive approach to living a purposeful life. By integrating these principles into my daily routine, I’ve found greater clarity, productivity, and fulfilment.

I thoroughly enjoyed my time during the sports/activity segment which was conducted to acquaint us with the concept of Synergy.It was truly effective since it provided ample opportunities to collaborate with the team members and reinforced ‘Collaboration’ as a powerful tool that not only enhances individual and team performance but also fosters a culture of innovation, accountability, and mutual support. Moreover, watching the movie ‘Chak de India’ bolstered the concept of 7 Habits further, leaving a lasting impact.

I would like to appreciate my facilitators- Puja Aggarwal and Muskan Mittal who were so compassionate and enthusiastic throughout the classes. In conclusion, Covey’s insights continue to resonate, reminding me that effectiveness is a journey rooted in intention, resilience, and continuous improvement.

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