Mehman Nawazi Of Rander

 

Mehman Nawazi

 

Today we decided to explore the long-lost gem- Rander. I have been in Surat for the past 20 years, but this part of Surat was unknown and untouched by me despite its proximity to our school. We explored and visited the various beautiful heritage sites and charming architecture of Rander. The history of Surat and the stories associated with it brought history alive. It felt like we went back in time. The Jain and the Muslim community living together with many temples and mosques next to each other showed us how the people here lived peacefully and happily together despite what is otherwise believed to be the case. 

The people here were so generous and welcoming, including ‘Abbas bhai’ who from his busy schedule gave us almost 4 hours to help us explore the place. He was polite, soft spoken, smiling and sharing with us all the knowledge about the place. Taking extra efforts to get permissions for places which were otherwise out of reach for us. 

After all the walking, we were not just ready but really hungry for the aloo puri and khawsa that we were here for. So the next stop for us was ‘Nakhuda Nasta center’. The place was brimming with aroma and enticed our tastes buds and we were welcomed here with a warm smile. We were first shown the process of how they make these iconic dishes. He took us to the kitchen, showed the making and answered all the questions. Someone revealing their business secret is something I saw for the first time. 

And finally we ordered everything they had on the menu- Aane do!- alu puri, cheese aloo puri, egg aloo puri, chicken aloo puri, rainbow aloo puri, veg khawsa, chicken khawsa, egg khawsa! After eating to our hearts content we wanted to drink something. He was really kind to get us drinks from another shop. This seemed like a local fav- RimZim which was really refreshing and reminded us of our childhood days. Next on our list was hand churned ice cream! And not just one flavor, Abbasbhai got us 12 different flavors! When the plates arrived on our tables we were all love struck- the colors and creaminess..After eating so much we were pretty sure we won’t be able to finish it but when we looked around after 10 mins all the plates were licked clean! 

“Atithi Devo Bhava “

Something I have only heard since I was a child, I experienced today. 

This Mehman Nawazi of Rander blew our minds and made the humble experience of eating aloo puri and khawsa into an unforgettable memory. In Rander you get not just good food but also truly authentic human beings!
This is the end of the story

Regards,

Payal Jain

Critical Thinking – Reflection

The moral rules for a particular person is different but not wrong. The activity “Murder Your Darlings” helped to understand the confirmation bias for decision-making. Relevant examples and case studies were used by the facilitators to understand the concepts better. There were other interesting distinctions catered like Cognitive Bias and Affinity Bias. The discussions helped me understand not to jump on the conclusion but rather should be backed by facts and evidences. I learnt that critical thinking is about considering all factors (CAF). Other important concepts like moral reasoning, moral relativism, self-interest theory, deontology, utilitarianism, etc. were introduced which is going to help me both professionally and personally.

Critical Thinking Day 3 and 4

When I opted for Critical Thinking I was not really ready to think critically as I was happy with my own likings and disliking. But to my surprise, the engagements and provocations are such that, I am actually looking forward for more sessions. I found the sessions interesting where I learned about the importance of critical thinking in life. On Day3 and 4 I learned about different types  of biases like Confirmation bias, Affinity bias, Anchoring bias, Availability bias, Inattentional bias, Hindsight  bias, etc. It  was an eyeopener for me and I  actually understood that my preferences are somewhere related to these biases. The best part was when I identifying my own biases. Through the sessions I got to know that we are pattern seeking  animals. Our brain has dots which joins or connects at times. It is difficult for humans to accept something new. I enjoyed the activity where I had to murder my daring by looking for the counter evidences.

Another interesting learning was abut Moral Relativism. Here I understood that my moral compass can be different from others. Our values are determined by the society we grow up in. No values are universal. They vary from culture to culture.

I am hoping to see myself applying my learning from these sessions and I am happy that I am learning to become a critique of my own thinking.

Looking forward to more such sessions!!!

How to achieve the best person in you, via awareness of cognitive biases

The Critical Thinking session on days 3 and 4
After a long and interesting discussion about different Biases, I conclude with an understanding, that humans can’t live without Biases. Biases will always appear in every action in the face of memory, Social, Learning, Belief, Mony, and politics. but when you ask yourself that
Why I have taken this action?
Why I am thinking like this? or
Why the other one is thinking like this?
What is my perspective or the other one’s perspective?
It helps to find the answer to what is right and what is wrong. and
We didn’t caught in our assumptions, conclusions, and beliefs without having proper knowledge which may lead us to wrong decisions.
As we see in Mahabharat and Ramayan the great role models with great tolerance and a great influencer.
The one who live with rules and values The one who set new rules and values
Beautiful examples of critical thinkers and in Hinduism,
It is called योगस्थ बुद्धि who is a very balanced thinker and who can take decisions with the end in their mind and didn’t judge anyone with Biases.
50 Cognitive Biases in the Modern World

CT Day 3-4 Baises and Ethical Delamas

My learning from CT Day 3 and 4:

  1. I got to about the different types of biases. In real life, we use all the bais. Knowing about bais will help in to think from different perspectives, everyone is right in their way. Keeping aside the affinity bias will help me to take a fair decision.
          2. Ethical dilemmas- Knowing about my own moral values and understanding that every individual has their own moral value that varies from culture to culture.
          3. Research work – While the research task, I learned that asking questions to myself helped me to know the truth about the topic/issue.
Overall: Respecting an individual’s perspective as everyone belings different culture but when needed we should also be making a decision based on universal truth.

 

Critical Thinking – Reflection

Got to know types of Biases like Confirmation bias, Dunning-Kruger Effect, Cultural bias, Self-Serving Bias etc. There are various instances when we are unconsciously working through these biases.

Through Murder your darling activity we had to think critically about different points, had to review both sides. By doing this activity I came to know that what we think or believe is not always 100% correct, there is always another side of the coin, which shows a different picture. We should be open to exploring these options too.
For important decisions in our life we should also think out of our bias, review all the sides and then decide.

How critically you can think..!!

Here are a few learning of my critical thinking session 3 and 4.

  • Murder your darling, which help us to critically evaluate the situation and share our point of view on it.
  • Rating the different situation from 1 to 10, that what comes to your priority, that help us to understand what are our “Ethics, responsibility, moral value”. This activity help me understand that each person has his/her own way to think.
  • Different types of bias and identifying which types of bias am I applying in my life consciously or  unconsciously.

Over all it was good, and I am still working on system 2.

“Murder your Darling…”

The title is really strong and contradicting. Same is the expectation for developing critical thinking – murder your biases – the thoughts, views, opinions which were so very comforting and supportive to your system 1.

It’s difficult – extremely difficult – because we have to do it by ourselves. It needs patience, clarity, acceptance, readiness and courage. But that’s the only way to heal, in many different ways and for many reasons. Eg – The topic I chose to – murder my darling was – “Men are not emotional”. Based on what I had seen, heard, and experienced all these years – this was a very easily accepted reality. So, to start off to murder – I looked into the men in my house to see whether they were really emotional? I really struggled hard to recall and see things differently to understand their ways to be emotional as my system 2 had never ever explored or saw through those lenses all this time. And hence there were differences, disagreements and resentments. But with great efforts with my system 2 at least now I can say – “mere ghar ke mardo ko BHI dard hota hae”.:):):):):) I am still work in porgress with my system 2 to observe more and understand their emotional side.

Critical Thinking Reflection

The session was taken by shezin mam and bargavi mam,

first of all the session was full of content and entertaining and lots of fruitful discussion

All the content deliver in complete in detail and facilitator are so relax and clam they are not hurry to just finish the portion, Also they listen each member very carefully and respond in kind manner

In that session we discuss about how the system 1 and system 2 responding in different situation as well as we discuss about understand the different bias:-confirmation bias basically when you like something and second is cognitive bias:based on information.

I think the session is very useful while its comes with students and also it is very important.

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