I had been in a paradigm of knowing everything, I felt that I know it all, now this was never an issue that I couldn’t connect with others due to this but it means that I always want people around me to be sorted with their selves. I had a lot of problems and issues in my past, I overcame it myself, I knew I had no one to held my hand when I suffer, so I always wanted to be there for others but until Life classes I did not realized with habit “seek first to understand than to be understood” that we not always have to speak our perspective or make a prejudice judgement on someone that we know what they are going through and pass our resolution and expect them to follow that. They have their own roots for problems, not everyone is same, and the way I figured out my issues, they should too but on their own. We just need to help them reaching a point where they can stand up for themselves, showing them how to decide, not giving them our own directions to follow.
This was the hinderance I figured in myself that I seek other people’s problem to give them my way of dealing, but now I know and I am confident to lend a hand not to pass my map, but to help them decide how to choose direction, so when they reach the destination, they will cherish and be independent and responsible towards their decisions.
I would like to give all the credits to My fellow participants who helped me shift my paradigms and specially My Facilitators who conducted this amazing sessions that helped us to find our own flaws to work on it.
A wonderful life-learning Experience, and Happy to take a step to Rejuvenate myself. Excited for new Life classes!