Managing Self Before Managing Others

A 2-day workshop on Emotional Intelligence & People Management made me rethink leadership from the ground up.

Behind technical tasks and delivery deadlines, we all carry an unseen load of responsibilities and expectations. Under pressure, it’s easy for the mind to hit a reflex trigger—reacting on impulse, overthinking, or second-guessing ourselves.

My biggest takeaways:

• The Power of the Pause: Spotting emotional triggers before they dictate the reaction.
• The SBI Approach: Delivering feedback tied strictly to Situation, Behaviour, and Impact—constructive, clear, and without unnecessary blame.
• Grounding in Chaos: Staying adaptable and calm when priorities shift.

Real leadership isn’t about managing others first; it begins with mastering our own emotions and listening with intent.

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