{"id":6050,"date":"2022-09-18T17:11:33","date_gmt":"2022-09-18T17:11:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lifeclasses.fountainheadschools.org\/?p=6050"},"modified":"2022-09-19T13:57:14","modified_gmt":"2022-09-19T13:57:14","slug":"murder-your-darling","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lifeclasses.fountainheadschools.org\/?p=6050","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Murder your Darling&#8230;&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The title is really strong and contradicting. Same is the expectation for developing critical thinking &#8211; murder your biases &#8211; the thoughts, views, opinions which were so very comforting and supportive to your system 1.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s difficult &#8211; extremely difficult &#8211; because we have to do it by ourselves. It needs patience, clarity, acceptance, readiness and courage. But that&#8217;s the only way to heal, in many different ways and for many reasons. Eg &#8211; The topic I chose to &#8211; murder my darling was &#8211; &#8220;Men are not emotional&#8221;. Based on what I had seen, heard, and experienced all these years &#8211; this was a very easily accepted reality. So, to start off to murder &#8211; I looked into the men in my house to see whether they were really emotional? I really struggled hard to recall and see things differently to understand their ways to be emotional as my system 2 had never ever explored or saw through those lenses all this time. And hence there were differences, disagreements and resentments. But with great efforts with my system 2 at least now I can say &#8211; &#8220;mere ghar ke mardo ko BHI dard hota hae&#8221;.:):):):):) I am still work in porgress with my system 2 to observe more and understand their emotional side.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The title is really strong and contradicting. Same is the expectation for developing critical thinking &#8211; murder your biases &#8211; the thoughts, views, opinions which were so very comforting and supportive to your system 1. It&#8217;s difficult &#8211; extremely difficult &#8211; because we have to do it by ourselves. It needs patience, clarity, acceptance, readiness and courage. But that&#8217;s the<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[22],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6050","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-critical-thinking"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lifeclasses.fountainheadschools.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6050","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lifeclasses.fountainheadschools.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lifeclasses.fountainheadschools.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifeclasses.fountainheadschools.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifeclasses.fountainheadschools.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6050"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/lifeclasses.fountainheadschools.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6050\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6065,"href":"https:\/\/lifeclasses.fountainheadschools.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6050\/revisions\/6065"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lifeclasses.fountainheadschools.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6050"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifeclasses.fountainheadschools.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6050"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifeclasses.fountainheadschools.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6050"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}